Yes, gods can be abusive
One has only to look at the lore itself. It pretty much doesn’t matter which lore: Celtic, Greek, Norse…it’s everywhere. The gods abuse each other and abuse humans. After all, they are sentient beings, just as we are. They suffer, make mistakes, do good and evil. Do you want to call me impious? Fine. I’ll wear that label proudly. It would be a great disservice to the gods to treat them as if they were something they’re not.